I know a lot of people would want to curse me or call me various terrible names because of what I am about to share but please, I beg you to be calm and understand my situation before you jump into conclusion. I am a 36 year old mother of five children, my husband is 40 and earns a meagre income as a cashier in a company.
His salary is not even enough to provide three square meals not to talk of paying school fees and rent. I used to have a job that enables me to support whatever he brings to the table but I lost the job after the establishment I was working with had financial problems and had to downsize. I was affected and since then, things have been very terrible for our family.
I decided to start a small business just in front of our house with the little money I got from my elder brother. I started selling provisions but the profit is so little and doesn’t do much. We have all been struggling and my family, especially kids, are looking very malnourished and poor. I have been looking for better jobs but nothing is forthcoming.
I finally got this heads up from my friend about a new company that’s hiring and she encouraged me to go. I didn’t take chances at all so I went. The job matches my qualifications and I had an idea on what to do because I already did that kind of job before. I passed the first phase of the interview which was conducted by a staff member.
The second phase was meant to be conducted by a senior partner in the firm and when it was my turn, I walked in only to see my ex boyfriend as the interviewer. We ended things in a rough way so I didn’t know what to do. To go straight to the point, he called me later and after several times of talking, he said the role I was applying for was competitive but he would let me have the job if I slept with him.
I felt bad that time but I have been thinking about it ever since then. I don’t know what to do. This job will change the life of my family completely. It is big money and will save us from poverty. I don’t know how to face this temptation. I begged him for another option but he wouldn’t even listen to me.
This guy is my ex and we have had sex before but ever since I got married, I have been a very faithful wife. I have never cheated on my husband and I have been very honest with him. Now, this request is something that I don’t know how to go about. Something tells me to forget about it but that will mean living in our current penury.
I look at my hungry children and I feel disappointed. I am hardworking but nothing seems to be working. If I decide to do as he requests, what if he continues to ask for more even after I get the job? I don’t know what to do. I am very confused and I need your help. Don’t insult me please, just advise me on that so that I will know what to do. I am at the crossroads currently.
Prayer to God for Divine intervention
This is very simple just look into your children’s eyes and see the confusion, shame, disappointment anger they will all feel towards you once they find out that you had an affair and cheated on their father. Now grab your chest stand tall and record document save his inappropriate advances to give the company’s hr department and you’ll be his boss before you know it.
Let the job go because that job is not made for you. In fact,no any job will come with impurity ( Adultery) please take time and wait for God time. Thank you
God will give u another job, don’t make mistake by sleeping with him because if u do, you will end up regretting and u will certainly loss that job before a month. Don’t fail God because of the job, the Almighty God has power to give u a better job. This matter is simple let him have his job if you must sleep with him to have it, that job is not yours. If u fail your children and husband, if u fail your family and yourself if you fail God then you are one of the worst and bad women in the world. You will loss your children and your husband if you try it.